Representing Yourself at your Family Law Trial

The Ontario Court of Justice has put together a guide to assist you in representing yourself at your family law trial.  The guide has lots of useful information that, while geared primarily for Ontario trials, is also helpful for trials in other provinces.

The guide discusses various things to consider before trial, including offers to settle, costs, witnesses, medical reports, documentary evidence, financial statements and so on.  The guide also provides a useful flowchart of the steps of a trial, and includes information on opening and closing statements, examining and cross-examining witnesses and experts, objections, excluding evidence, etc.

Remember, however, that the guide provides very basic information only and is not intended to replace legal advice.  Family law is a complex area of law and you may well want to hire a lawyer to ensure that your rights are protected. If you can’t hire a lawyer for your entire trial, you should at least consider consulting a lawyer for specific issues.  For a list of family lawyers in your area, please refer to the lawyers listed in the sidebar of the My Support Calculator website.

Federal Government Announces New Tax Changes for Families with Children

In October 2014, the federal government announced some budget changes that will affect families with children.  Here is a summary of some of the changes:

The Family Tax Cut (2014 and subsequent tax years)

Couples with a dependent child under 18 years of age may transfer up to $50,000 of taxable income from the higher income earning spouse to the lower income earning spouse. The maximum tax savings is capped at $2,000.

This would not apply to separated or divorced couples unless they have repartnered. If both parties have repartnered, a child in shared custody could potentially mean both new families could take advantage of this tax savings.

Child Care Expense Deduction (2015 and subsequent tax years)

The child care tax deduction is being increased by $1,000. Therefore, the tax deduction increases to:

  1. $8,000 per child for children under 7 years of age;
  2. $5,000 per child for children 7 to 15 years of age, inclusive; and
  3. $11,000 per child for disabled children.

Children’s Fitness Tax Credit (2014 and subsequent years)

The amount of program fees eligible for a federal non-refundable fitness tax credit for children engaged in qualifying activities doubles from $500 to $1,000 per child. In 2015, this tax credit becomes refundable.

 Universal Child Care Benefits (UCCB) (2015 and subsequent benefit years)

The UCCB increases from $100 to $160 per month for children under 6 years of age. A new benefit of $60 per month begins for children 6 to 17 years of age, inclusive.

 Child Tax Credit (2015 and subsequent taxation years)

This non-refundable tax credit for children under 18 years of age has been repealed, and replaced by the enhanced UCCB.

To determine if you will be affected by the changes, you should consult a tax specialist.

What To Do & Bring When Attending Court

Divorce can be a very stressful situation.  We definitely do not want to add to that stress by frustrating a Judge in court because we have not filled out the paperwork properly or have failed to include the corresponding documentation. Whether filing documents in the courts, attending at a hearing or mediating (when you can actually get along with the soon-to-be-ex-spouse), it is imperative that your documents are filled out correctly with current information.  Whether using legal counsel or going it on your own, never skip steps! Judges/mediators don’t like their time to be wasted! Therefore, check and recheck your information before filing or attending at the courts.

A very good friend to MSC, The Honourable Mr. Justice D. Roger Timms, has been kind enough to share a few pointers on what to do and bring when attending court.  Be sure to read this fabulous article and take notes for your next court visit!

Click HERE to read Mr. Justice Timms’ article Family Law – A view from the Bench.

Your Day in Family Court: How to Prepare & What to Expect

The following webinar discusses what it’s like to go to Family Court.  From the Family Law Education for Women (FLEW) campaign, this webinar presents an easy-to-follow guide of the steps leading up to trial, working with your lawyer, as well as some commonly used court terms.

FLEW, which is run by METRAC, provides legal information about family law with clear explanations, in 14 languages including American Sign Language, and audio formats.

The presenters in this webinar are Tamar Witelson, METRAC’s Legal Director, and Jenna Beaton, a practicing family law practitioner with the firm Martha McCarthy & Company.

This easy-to-follow webinar is information-packed and a great way to review the basic process of a day in Family Court.

To view this webinar, click here.  For the slide presentation only, click here.

What to Expect when going to Family Court

Going to family court can be a long and confusing process.  This article is the first in a series that will take you through what to expect at each stage, and will help provide you with links to places where you can learn more about each step.

The Pleadings

The first step when taking a matter to family court is an exchange of documents.  In general, the people involved (referred to as ‘parties’), take turns preparing an application, then a response and finally a reply to the response.  Each document has to be ‘served’ on the other party, and filed with the court.  Serving is a formal process where the party who created the document gives it to the other party involved in the case.

The very first step in a family court matter is the filing of an application by one person. In Ontario, the form to file is Form 8.  The form sets out the types of claims that the person can make. The person who fills out the form is known as the Applicant, and once filled out, the Applicant must serve it on the other person (or persons) involved in the claim, known as the Respondent(s).

The Respondent then needs to prepare a response or ‘Answer’ and serve it on the Applicant.  The response gives the Respondent a chance to address the facts and claims made by the Applicant, as well as make new claims.  Claims by the Respondent are known as ‘counter claims’.  The respondent has a deadline for filing his response, which, like the forms, can vary by province.  In Ontario, the deadline is 30 days, and the form required is Form 10.

After receiving the response, the Applicant has an opportunity to serve and file a ‘Reply’. The Reply is meant to address new facts and claims presented by the Respondent.  You can learn more about how to file a Reply, and the timelines involved here.

During this initial period of exchanging documents (known as pleadings), both parties will be normally be required to share their financial information with each other. Depending on the court in which the application is filed, there may be a ‘first appearance’ scheduled, where the Applicant and Respondent meet with a court official to make sure they have filed the proper paperwork and disclosed finances appropriately.

Conferences and Motions

After the pleadings have been filed, the next step is a case conference.  This is an informal meeting between a judge, the Applicant and the Respondent.  In general, the judge will go over the details of the pleadings, and will make orders for disclosure and questioning as needed.  The judge might also make some ‘uncontested orders’ (ones where both parties agree).

After a case conference, the Applicant and Respondent are able to make motions to the court.  This ability allows them to request smaller matters be handled until the trial is resolved.  Motions often include establishing or varying support or custody arrangements, but all sorts of motions are possible.

A case conference marks the start of when parties can submit motions, but if a motion is urgent, it is possible to file an ‘ex parte’ motion (ie. an urgent motion without notice to the other party) earlier than a case conference.

Before an actual trial can occur, a settlement conference needs to be scheduled. It is another informal meeting between judge, Applicant and Respondent, but unlike the case conference, its’ focus is on resolving issues between the parties.  The judge will go over each part of the case, and try to narrow the scope of disagreement between the parties so that if a trial can’t be avoided, it can at least be focused on as few issues as possible.

Once a settlement conference has occurred, it is possible to schedule a court date, although sometimes the parties will schedule additional settlement conferences after the first one in the hopes of avoiding a trial.

Family courts are often overburdened, and it can take some time before the parties can schedule a trial date.  As the date approaches, one final conference, called a trial management conference, occurs.

Unlike a settlement conference, a trial management conference is focused on the logistics of how the trial will proceed.  Both parties will be required to outline who their witnesses will be, and how long they will need to examine them.  A judge will make any last minute orders for disclosure or questioning, and both parties will give notice as to what issues they hope to have the court address.   The purpose of the trial management conference is to create a timeline for the trial, and handle the logistical needs of the court.

The Trial

The structure of the trial itself can vary greatly depending on the issues at hand, and what is decided during the trial management conference.

LCO Report on Increasing Access to Justice in Family Law

The Law Commission of Ontario has released a new report looking at how to make the family law system in Ontario more inclusive and affordable.

The challenges created by unrepresented litigants are a particular focus in the report. The report states,

Although family law disputants keep being told to “get a lawyer”, many  cannot afford to do so, are  too “dispirited” or they do not know what lawyers do.

The report cautiously recognizes the use of unbundled services as part of the solution, and even indicates that expanding the scope of paralegals may be part of the solution.

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Final Report of National Study on Self-Represented Litigants Released

The National Self Represented Litigants Project, spearheaded by Prof. Julie Macfarlane of the University of Windsor Law School, has released its final report entitled “Identifying and Meeting the Need of Self-Represented Litigants”.  The 150-page report includes findings based on interviews with several hundred self-represented litigants in Alberta, British Columbia, and Ontario, and presents statistical data and recommendations relating to self-represented litigants in all three provinces. An executive summary of the report is available here.

The report’s findings include the following statistics about self-represented litigants (SRL):

  • 30% – 38% of all litigants in Alberta, British Columbia and Ontario are self-represented.
  • 60% of all SRLs are involved in family law litigation.
  • The majority of family law cases involving SRLs are heard in divorce court (Superior Court of Court of Queen’s Bench).
  • 54% of SRLs who were interviewed reported that they had a lawyer at some point during their litigation.
  • The most consistently reported reason for self-representation was financial constraint, and the majority of SRLs who were interviewed reported that they did not have a lawyer because they could not afford to pay legal fees.
  • Many litigants reported that they became self-represented in the middle of their family law dispute because they ran out of funds and could not continue to pay a lawyer.
  • Another frequently cited reason for self-representation was dissatisfaction with the legal services provided by lawyers.

Among the report’s main findings was the fact that SRLs are seeking legal information and “guidance” rather than legal advice or “direction”, and that resources providing legal comprehensive legal information are not readily available.

My Support Calculator is working diligently to provide self-represented litigants with comprehensive information about family law. To learn more about family law and the legal process, continue navigating through For a free calculation of your own or your partner’s support obligations, click here.



Overview of Documents Needed in a Family Law File

Family law files involve a lot of preparation, and there’s plenty of information exchanged between the sides.

Having the proper documentation is absolutely essential to resolving the matter, especially if a case appears as if it is going to court. Knowing what documents you require beforehand is helpful, as it can take a lot of time to gather the necessary information.  Original documents may be required in some instances, although copies may be sufficient in others.

If parties are represented, the lawyers will typically keep the originals of many of these documents. They are required to care for these documents properly, and will return them at the conclusion of the file or the termination of the retainer agreement.

One important exception to this is the piece of identification you provide when you initially retain a lawyer, which will be copied and returned to you immediately. Identification requirements are quite routine, and should not be taken as a sign that the lawyer does not trust you or thinks you are pretending to be someone else.


Click here to download or print this file.


Disclaimer: Although the checklist is very detailed, not all of the disclosure items listed will be necessary or relevant to your case. Furthermore, the checklist is not comprehensive and you may be required (or requested) to provide additional documentation that is not listed.

Any private information that you provide or receive in connection with your case should be used only for the purposes of resolving your family law case, and for no other purpose. Improper use of another person’s financial information may have legal consequences. This list has been compiled by My Support Calculator for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. You should always defer to a lawyer for legal advice.

Additional Documentation to Provide to Your Lawyer: Consider providing your lawyer with the additional information found in here. Ontario residents may also want to consider completing a draft Financial Statement: Draft 13.1 Financial Statement with Instructions (ON only)

Overview of Information Required for Your Family Law Case

One of the best ways that you can save money and keep your legal fees down is to be properly prepared. Family law cases can be complex and require a lot of information.

There are lots of documents required when planning your family law file. There are also lots of questions and details that are helpful to provide at the initial stage of your file.

In addition to obvious questions such as details about you, your spouse, your relationship, and your children, the court or lawyers involved will also want to know employment information about you and your partner, detailed information about your assets and liabilities, and information about the matrimonial home.

Bringing several pieces of identification for a meeting with a lawyer, and a chequebook, is usually a good idea. Identification requirements are common across Canada, and should not be considered an insult or a sign that the lawyer mistrusts you. A cheque may be needed to provide a retainer to establish the lawyer-client relationship.

Filling out the following document will save you a considerable amount of time at a lawyer’s office, and should help the lawyer prepare for your file.

Click here to download or print this file. 

Documents Required:
See list of documents to provide to your lawyer: Basic Documents Required For Your Family Law Case.
For Ontario residents, also complete a draft Financial Statement: Draft 13.1 Financial Statement with Instructions (ON only).

Family Law Issues Which Could Trigger a Tax Audit

Alison Griffiths of the Toronto Star points out a couple of family law issues which could inadvertently lead to an audit by the Canada Revenue Agency (CRA).

Only one parent can claim tax deductions like the children’s fitness credit (line 365), tuition transfer (line 324) or  amount for an eligible dependent (line 305). During separation or divorce, parents need to communicate during tax season in order to ensure that both are not inadvertently claiming the same thing.

Some people try to claim legal fees under the Line 232 “Other deductions.”

All of these areas, if improperly addressed, could flag the attention of the CRA and lead to an audit.